What is “correct spelling”?

Advay (my 7 year old) has developed a fascination for the written form this year. It started with the need to read his favourite story books and then with the need to capture his expression in words.

He was doing a good job expressing his ideas & thoughts through drawings. For instance: after he came back from a trek that he went with his mother, he spent some time capturing what he saw on the trek by drawing it on paper.

Given his affinity to draw, Nandini figured that it wouldn’t be economical to buy drawing books over and over again. So she bought a paper roll (the one that people use in weddings to cover the dining tables before serving food). These paper rolls cost very less, are usually made out of recycled paper, last really long and also offer drawing space that conventional drawing books don’t offer.

Advay started using that for his expressions. Sometimes his art work would be done in “collaboration” with our relatives or his friends in the neighbourhood.

In the past few months though, he has developed a fascination for reading & writing Kannada & English. For the moment he is able to read & write in English better than he does Kannada, but he is exploring both at his own pace.

What I am moved to observe is that “the need for writing” came before “the act of writing”. For example, he would notice his mother write shopping lists before going out. Now he wants to write shopping lists. He invents his own spellings though.

He now knows that written words help recreate their vocal sounds in the mind of the reader. So he tries to capture the vocal sound in letters as closely as possible. Below are his spellings for numbers 1 – 10.

At the moment the letters F, S & R are all mirror images. After writing this, he contrasted his spellings with those on the number chart we had prepared for him a while ago.

He laughed his heart out at his own spellings after comparing his spellings with the “correct” ones. After a while though, he concluded exactly what Shri Amitabh Bachchan had concluded years ago that “English is a funny language.”

All jokes aside, we do notice that the spellings are all wrong. While we remind him about the correct spellings, we are also allowing him to discover correct spellings by himself too. When he reads letters in books, it is a gentle reminder for him to know correct spellings.

However, for now we want him to continue expressing vocal-sounds of words in the form of written-string-of-letters, even at the cost of bad spellings, because we want him to discover the real beauty of the written form. We want him to discover that the written form helps capture vocal expressions on paper. That spoken words from one person can be recorded on paper and they can get recreated in another person when read.

Over time as he shows his writing to more people, he will discover that he needs to get his spellings right so that his written form is accurately communicating to others. He will need to discover that spellings are agreed upon sequences of letters for words so that communication from one person to another person via the written form is accurate. Right now, we are in no hurry to have him spell correctly.

Last week, there was an activity in his school. One by one, kids were asked to sit on a chair with eyes closed. The other kids would come from behind and whisper one thing positive about the kid who is sitting. Once all the kids have heard positive words about themselves from others, they would then sit and capture all that they heard on a piece of paper. Advay decided to capture it in a bookmark. This is what he wrote.

Again spellings are all wrong. But he enjoyed writing good descriptive words about himself on paper. He also loves the logo of my new startup, so he tends to insert it everywhere these days.

It’s wonderful to notice his “tryst with the written form.” As with any love affair, this one will take time too. In the meantime, Nandini & I are in no hurry to have him “get it right ™”

Advay’s visit to “Open Day at IISc”

Nandini recently found out about “Open Day at IISc”. She was excited to go with Advay (my 7 year old) for that event. On Saturday they both got on the Metro and reached the IISc campus.

Through the journey, Nandini explained to Advay what Open Day was and the opportunity that would be available to him. That he would get to see a lot of “science-stuff” and it would all be very interesting. Advay was very keen to check it out.

Once they reached the campus and walked-in, he saw the corn vending counter. Advay loves corn, so he asked for a cup. Nandini buys him a cup-corn. He took his own sweet time relishing the corn in all its glory.

Once he was done with corn, he threw the cup away in the bin and they both started walking towards the area where “science stuff” was happening.

Enroute, Advay notices a lot of people having ice-cream. He turns to Nandini and says – “Amma, so many people are having ice-cream. There has to be an ice-cream counter somewhere nearby. Let’s go find that out. I want an ice-cream.”

Nandini was a little pissed at this point. In her head she is thinking – “Have we come here for Open Day or for eating corn and ice-cream!” But then, she is also given by this thought – “It’s very sweet actually, he is fully being a 7 year old kid!” So, she goes ahead and buys him an ice-cream anyway.

Advay spends his own sweet time savouring every bit of the ice cream. Throws the cup into the bin. Now, seemingly ready to look at the “science-stuff” he looks at Nandini with a “I am now ready, let’s go” expression.

They then stroll around the campus and gathered as much “science-stuff-gazing” as possible. In the end it turned out that the day seemed mostly apt for 10-11+ year olds. Advay did enjoy the display of rockets and airplane models though. Finally they caught a bus ride back home.

When he came back home, he was tired of course. But then he got what he wanted from an “Open Day”.
– Corn
– Ice-Cream
– Rocket & Airplane models
– Metro & Bus ride
– And many many more…

Today afternoon, when Nandini & I were enjoying our Sunday noon nap; Advay spent a good 2 hours making this 🙂

There is so much for me to learn from him!

Stay “grounded”

Am reading a book called “Earthing” recommended by a friend. Its available for download from here.


The book encourages you to literally be in touch with the earth / ground beneath your feet. Perhaps keeping your feet grounded in the cities may not do the trick, but a walk (bare feet) in the park might help. Check out the book sometime.

SuccEss – My definition!

Success is

“Having the true freedom from self-created or self-imposed constraints and being able to make any choice, and express oneself fully”